By the second month, when the exact same thing happened again without any variation, I started reviewing every detail of my expenses, searching for a logical explanation that would help me believe everything was still under control.

By the third month, there were no excuses left to hold onto, and the uneasy feeling in my stomach had turned into a mix of anxiety, suspicion, and a quiet anger that refused to fade away.

My name is Brianna Foster, and at that time I was working long hours from the dining table inside my older brother Victor Foster’s house in Tampa, Florida, convincing myself that staying there was only temporary after a breakup that had drained me emotionally.