I don’t remember the day my mother gave me up. I was just a baby placed into foster care, growing up with fragments instead of answers—moving between homes, learning early not to expect permanence or unconditional love. By the time I understood what abandonment meant, it had already shaped who I was.
At twenty-two, I decided to find my biological mother. When I finally stood at her door, she barely recognized me. She had a stable life, a husband, and three children. When she learned I was “just a waitress,” her expression hardened. She told me she didn’t want me anywhere near her family and closed the door in my face. I walked away promising myself I would never try again.
Forty days later, she called.