When I found my ex-husband’s father abandoned inside a nursing home, his trousers damp with urine, he still had enough pride left to ask me not to waste my concern on him.

I had gone to the Santa Clara facility at the edge of Brookdale Heights to complete an annual financial audit. I’m a freelance accountant, thirty-two years old, and after my divorce I learned how to walk into and out of places without dragging too much of my past behind me. But that afternoon, my history was sitting beneath a dirty window in a wheelchair, struggling to reach a plastic cup that had fallen onto the floor.

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