And because Daniel and I existed in the world of community work and public service, our guest list looked very different from the country club weddings my parents were used to. Yes, we had coworkers and friends and some of my students’ families. But we also had people who’d seen the impact of what we did firsthand.
People like the mayor, who’d cut the ribbon on Daniel’s new youth center.
People like the state senator, who’d co-sponsored a bill inspired by a youth advocacy group Daniel helped organize.
People like the superintendent of schools, who’d observed my classroom and seen what could happen when kids from “bad neighborhoods” were given a teacher who refused to write them off.
People like the nationally known child psychologist who’d partnered with Daniel’s nonprofit on trauma-informed programming, and the best-selling author who’d mentored me through my first article about teaching in underfunded schools.
To my parents, our wedding was a small, embarrassing affair in a modest venue with buffet-style catering and DIY centerpieces.
They had no idea who would be sitting in those “small” chairs.
“The music is starting,” the coordinator said, appearing at the end of the hallway. “We’re lining up. Are you ready?”
I took a deep breath. My fingers tightened around my bouquet; the stems were cool and slightly damp against my palm.
“Yes,” I said. “I’m ready.”