“I understand perfectly,” I said.

She waited for me to snap or plead with her, but I simply turned off the water and went outside for some air. The American flag on the porch moved slowly in the breeze while I looked out at the quiet street.

I wasn’t there to humiliate anyone, but I was there to honor my father in the only way I still knew how. As I stood on the porch, I could feel the weight of the rumors pressing against my back.