I built my parents a $325,000 lake house with my own company, my own crew, and countless hours of overtime I’d rather forget.

Every beam, every window, every cedar plank on the porch was placed under my supervision. It was meant to be my way of thanking them. My father, Walter, had spent nearly four decades working in a machine shop, and my mother, Helen, had cleaned motel rooms until her body could no longer handle it. They never asked me for anything.