My husband had no idea I earned $130,000 a year, so he actually laughed while telling me he’d filed for divorce and planned to take the house and the car. He served me papers while I was still in a hospital gown, then vanished and remarried as if I were just a debt he’d finally cleared. Three nights later, at exactly 11:23 p.m., my phone lit up with his name — and when I answered, his voice was trembling with panic.

He handed me the divorce papers while I was still wearing a hospital bracelet, the kind that makes you feel like a chart instead of a human being. What began as simple dizziness had escalated into whispered conversations between doctors outside my curtain. I was drained, frightened, barely steady.