I never thought I’d be the kind of woman who installs hidden cameras in her own property. But when my husband’s “business trips” started sounding hollow and an old neighbor called with questions, my gut told me there was more to Luke’s absences than spreadsheets and client meetings.

For seven years, I thought I had the marriage everyone secretly envied. Luke and I moved through life like perfectly synchronized swimmers. Supporting each other’s careers, planning weekend getaways, and dreaming about the family we’d start “someday soon.”

I was so caught up in the performance of our perfect life that I missed all the warning signs.