PART 1

“If you truly love me, you won’t ask how much blood they need, so you’ll donate without another word,” was the last thing Brendan said to me before a nurse stuck the needle deep into my arm.

Forty minutes later, I left the blood bank of a private clinic in La Jolla with weak legs, a cotton ball taped to my arm, and the absurd certainty that I had just done something heroic for the man I loved.