“You’re not welcome at Thanksgiving,” my mother-in-law told me. My husband merely smiled. “My mother’s word is law.” I didn’t argue. I went home, locked the joint credit card, redirected my paycheck, and sent my attorney a one-word email: “Proceed.” When I switched my phone back on the next morning, there were 52 missed calls. That was when I understood they hadn’t missed me—they had missed my