We contacted the authorities, changed our phone numbers, and locked down her online accounts. Most importantly, we talked—openly and honestly—about grief, trust, and how vulnerable loss can make a person.
Susie is safe now.
But the experience changed me.
I realized that grief doesn’t disappear with time. It stays quietly in the background, and if you’re not careful, someone else can use it to hurt the people you love.
I couldn’t protect my daughter from losing her father. But I can protect her from anyone who tries to take advantage of that loss.
And that is something I will never stop doing.
