PART 1

“My mother is coming to live with us, and the decision has been made. You are going to vacate your office and, for once in your life, shut up and deal with it.”

During seven years of marriage, Christopher had never spoken to me in such an aggressive tone. That was why, when I heard those sharp words over the phone at four twenty on a Thursday afternoon, I did not immediately feel a wave of anger. Instead, I felt something far worse, which was the cold certainty that this entire conversation had already happened many times among others before finally reaching my ears.