My name is Claire Bennett, and for most of my adult life, I believed my older sister Marissa and I had survived everything together.

We grew up in a farmhouse outside Cedar Falls, Iowa. Our mother, Evelyn, ran a tailoring business from the back room. Marissa was four years older and stayed home to help Mom. I moved away for college, married, and built a life in Des Moines, but I called Mom every Sunday.