PART 1

“You were three hours late to your own wedding, so do not come here playing the victim, as my son already married a woman who knows how to put him first.”

That was the very first sentence my nearly mother in law, Brenda, spat at me as I sprinted up the marble stairs of the event center in San Antonio with my wedding dress crumpled, my hair falling apart, and the distinct sharp scent of a hospital operating room clinging to my skin.