The bowl dropped in front of my six-year-old son with a soggy thud, and for one unbelievable second, every noise in my sister’s dining room v@nished.

Noah stared at it. My daughter Ellie pulled away from her own bowl.

Across the table, my niece Chloe sliced into a small steak Melissa had cooked especially for her, shining with butter. My parents laughed first.