PART 1: THE DINNER MY DAUGHTER WAS FORBIDDEN TO EAT

“Grandma said Mom and I are only allowed to eat instant noodles.”

When eleven-year-old Lily told me that, something inside me stopped negotiating.

It was almost nine-thirty when I returned to our house in Riverside, California, after four consecutive evenings at the office. Before I reached the living room, the smell of garlic butter, grilled lobster, and expensive wine drifted through the hallway.