I only promised her I would think about it.
The next morning, I had a Facebook message from David, only that Noah signed it off.
He wrote: “He didn’t fake liking you. He faked his age because he wasn’t brave enough to show you himself.”
I read it just as another message came.
“He was still wrong. Just thought you should know.”
I laughed and messaged him back a “thank you.”
Before my flight home, I sent David one message.
“Let’s meet at the public garden. Noon. For one hour.”
He arrived early. Of course he did.
He wore a blue shirt and black pants.
We sat on a bench, where he told me everything.
His battle with cancer. His fear after his wife died.
How aging seemed to happen all at once.
How he created Facebook because Noah said he needed to talk to “people who weren’t relatives.”
I said, “He is a smart boy.”
David smiled. “He gets it from his mother.”
Then he apologized again. Properly, with no excuses.
I told him I didn’t know what would happen next.
He nodded. “I don’t either.”
“I don’t trust you completely.”
“I understand.”
“If you say ‘I know,’ I may push you into the fountain.”
He laughed and so did I.
Then I flew home that evening. For two weeks, we barely spoke.
Then he sent me a picture of his actual face.
There was no filter and no old photograph.
He captioned it: “Morning. I’m unfortunately still 81.”
I laughed. I sent back a picture of myself before coffee.
“I’m unfortunately still 62.”
That was how we started again. Slowly and cautiously.
We had video calls this time.
Every week and then every few days.
Noah wandered through the background constantly.
Sometimes he waved.
Sometimes he said, “She’s too good for you, Granddad. Don’t mess this up.” David told him to go away.
Claire eventually met Noah and David on video too.
She asked him more questions in 20 minutes than I had in four months.
Afterward, she said, “I like him.”
Months passed.
Our connection didn’t disappear.
We still talked about plants, books, and weather.
The strange indignities of aging and his cancer checkups.
My divorce and the dog I still missed.
One evening, David said, “I love you.”
I didn’t say it back immediately. He didn’t ask me to.
A week later, I told him, “I think I’m falling in love with you too.”
He smiled. “Think?”
“I’m 62. I reserve the right to review the evidence.”
He laughed.
There is no grand thing that has happened yet.
No wedding.
No moving 1,100 miles.
No dramatic promise.
I don’t know what this will become.
David is 19 years older than I am. I am in my early 60s.
So, we are taking it slowly.
Maybe slower than people expect at our age.
But I don’t think age means you should rush.
We’ve both already spent decades loving other people.
We’ve both lost versions of the future we thought we would have.
Now we have someone who wants to hear about our hydrangeas.
Someone who notices when the morning coffee picture is late.
Someone who knows what four o’clock in the evening sounds like in an empty house.
For now, that’s enough.
And yes, we video-call.
Every single time.
Do you think the 19-year age difference matters more because David hid it, or would it still have been a serious issue even if he had been honest from the beginning?
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