My parents texted me at 8:12 on the morning of their fortieth wedding anniversary.

“Don’t come tonight. Only high-society guests will be there. We don’t want things to feel awkward. Oh, and Julian RSVP’d yes. It’s best you avoid him.”

I read the message twice, my thumb hovering over the cracked screen of my phone. I was thirty-six, unmarried, and—in my parents’ curated version of my life—still “doing some little computer project in a medical garage.”

They preferred my younger sister, Olivia. She had married a prominent cardiologist, lived in a pristine brownstone in Beacon Hill, knew exactly which silver fork belonged beside which porcelain plate, and never seemed to leave the house without an expensive-looking camel coat. I was the stain on their immaculate social tapestry. And Julian—my ex-fiancé who had returned my ring three years ago with a condescending sigh, claiming I was “too lost in the clouds and lacking a foundation”—was apparently now considered a more suitable guest for their milestone than their own flesh and blood.