When Mama went into the nursing home, none of us expected my brother Sheldon to become the person who controlled everything.

But he was the oldest.

He lived closest to Mama.

And, at least at first, we trusted him.

Mama needed expensive care. Sheldon told us the nursing home cost around $9,000 a month, and he said he would handle her bank accounts, bills, taxes, insurance, and the lake cabin.

“We don’t need four people digging through her paperwork,” he told us. “I’ll keep everything organized and send you updates.”

We believed him.

That was our first mistake.

For nearly three years, Sheldon gave us the same story.