For twenty-three years, I was a ghost haunting my own life.

While most children were raised with bedtime stories and warm embraces, I was raised with a chore chart and a relentless, crushing set of expectations. I was born into the wealthy, image-obsessed Sterling family, but you wouldn’t know it by looking at me. In our household, there was only one child who truly existed: my older brother, Julian.

Julian was the golden boy. He had our father’s piercing blue eyes and our mother’s silver tongue. He was destined for greatness, or so my parents repeated like a religious mantra. I, on the other hand, was the “helper.” That was the word my mother used to mask the reality of my existence. I wasn’t a daughter; I was the unpaid, unappreciated staff.