I decided to go. I wore a simple, tailored black dress—an understated Alexander McQueen piece that cost $3,000, though my mother would undoubtedly assume I bought it on clearance at a department store.

When I arrived, the private room was already buzzing. My parents were fawning over Julian, a tall, conventionally handsome man who wore a Rolex that looked a little too shiny. Sitting across from him were his parents: Arthur and Eleanor Sterling.