“Where is Wanda?” Mama would cry out, batting my hands away as I tried to change her clothes. “Wanda is my smart girl. She wouldn’t treat me like this.”

It broke my heart daily, but I stayed. I stayed because she was my mother, and underneath the disease, I knew she was terrified. I sacrificed my own life to be her anchor. To sit in that lawyer’s office and find out she had deliberately written a will—dated only six months ago, during a period of lucidity—leaving me absolutely nothing of value felt like a physical blow to the chest.