I was 28 years old and had spent my entire life as a ghost in the machine of the foster care system. A ward of the state, an orphan with no family, no history, and no roots. I grew up bouncing between overcrowded group homes and apathetic foster families after my parents died in a horrific car accident when I was just three months old.

I never had any relatives to claim me. No grandparents to bake me cookies, no aunts or uncles to send me awkward birthday cards with five-dollar bills tucked inside. My parents, as the social workers always told me with a pitying sigh, were orphans themselves. They had been raised in a state asylum, two lonely souls who found each other, had a child, and were abruptly erased from the world on a rain-slicked highway.