I laughed it off. But then, the visits became daily. She began bringing “educational materials”—pamphlets on elite private preschools with ten-year waiting lists.

The “then” happened on a Friday afternoon. I came home from a long shift to find Eleanor in our guest room—the room we were converting into a nursery. She wasn’t alone. Two men in overalls were hauling out the hand-carved oak crib my father had spent months building for his first grandchild.