But for three decades, Eleanor had used her own savings, her pension, and eventually the sale of a small piece of inherited land, to quietly help families get out of dangerous situations — providing emergency cash with no paperwork, no strings, no questions that could ever be traced back to a shelter or a caseworker. Parents fleeing abusive partners with young children would sometimes pass through with nothing. Eleanor gave them enough to get a motel room, a bus ticket, a first month’s rent somewhere the abuser couldn’t find them.