At my son’s wedding, my wife returned home trembling and insisted she had simply fallen. Two days later, the venue manager called and asked me to come alone because recovered security footage showed what had really happened. After watching what my son and his new wife had done to her, I did not call them.

At my son’s wedding, my wife came home without saying much.

She was not merely tired or overwhelmed. She was quiet in the same way she had been after her mother died, folding her pain inward like a letter no one else was permitted to open.