The day my uncle passed away, I remember the silence in the house. It was the kind of silence that swallows everything—the ticking of the grandfather clock, the creak of the floorboards, even the sound of my own heartbeat. Uncle Harold was a quiet man, a retired accountant who lived alone in a modest Victorian house on the outskirts of Richmond, Virginia. He had never married, at least as far as any of us knew. He was my mother’s older brother, and they had always been close, or so I thought.