I was 31, pregnant with our first son, Rowan, when my husband, Beckett, showed me who he really was. Up until that morning, I thought we were the “gold standard” couple—the kind people envied. But labor has a way of stripping away the masks people wear.

The morning real contractions hit, I gasped and gripped the kitchen counter. I looked at Beckett, my eyes wide with a mix of terror and excitement. I managed to choke out three words: “It is it.”