Part I: The Intruders in the Kitchen

The first thing I noticed when I walked into my kitchen was not the divorce papers, though they were waiting for me on the marble island in a thick cream envelope. It was not my mother-in-law stuffing my cashmere sweaters into heavy black plastic garbage bags, nor my father-in-law carrying a cardboard box out of the upstairs office where I kept our tax records, family photographs, and every important document I owned.