I thought my daughter’s whisper about a “grown-up surprise” was harmless — until she mentioned the woman she saw in our hotel room with my husband and my brother.

The sun spilled gold across the coastline, and the salt air carried the kind of ease I had been chasing for months. I watched Lily crouching at the edge of the surf, her small hands patting a lopsided sandcastle into shape, and I felt my shoulders finally drop. This vacation had been circled on our calendar since spring.