Weeks later, my mom Denise visited from Alaska. Practical and tough, she listened as Jake confessed feeling like a failure. She told him, “Being down doesn’t make you a failure. Staying down does.”

After returning home, Mom called with an idea: “Come to Alaska. Live rent-free with me. Work hard, save big.” She explained that fishing season and winter jobs could net us $50,000 each in two years. Jake lit up—wedding, house, ring, all possible. I was thrilled. We set a move date.