My younger sister walked into the county courthouse in Bellingham, Washington, wearing a cream designer suit and the same confident smile she had used on our parents for most of her life.

Her name was Brielle Ashton.

Mine was Laurel Whitaker.

For thirty-four years, Brielle had been the golden child in our family. She was the one my parents praised at dinner, protected during arguments, and excused whenever she hurt someone. I was the quiet one. The practical one. The daughter who worked late, paid her own bills, and learned early that asking for help usually led to disappointment.