I always thought my relationship with my dad was special. Different from others. He wasn’t perfect, no dad is, but he was my dad. And when he married her, I tried. I really did. She was kind, in her own way. Always there. Especially when his health started to fail. She’d cook his meals, manage his meds, drive him to endless appointments. I saw it, I appreciated it, I truly did. But she was still just… her. My stepmom. Not my mother, not my friend. Just the woman who shared his last decade.