Some moments divide your life into “before” and “after,” though when they’re happening, you rarely recognize them. For me, it started as an ordinary week and ended with questions I never thought I’d have to ask.

The kitchen was quiet that Tuesday morning, the kind of quiet I usually loved. I had my coffee, my laptop, and 20 minutes before work. That’s when I noticed the first withdrawal by accident.

Six hundred dollars. Gone from my daughter Harper’s college fund.

I scrolled up, then down, then up again, as if the number might rearrange itself if I stared at it long enough.

That’s when I noticed the first withdrawal.

My husband, Owen, and I had been saving into that account since the day our daughter came home from the hospital.

  • Birthday money from grandparents.
  • Tax refunds.
  • Every little bonus I got from work.

Harper was 16 now, already talking about college as if it were a train waiting specifically for her.

“Mom,” she called from the stairs, “did you print my SAT practice sheet?”

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