When I left her in the care of my husband, Mark, who had asked to leave his office early as soon as I explained the situation, I locked myself in my home office and began to work. First, I canceled the automatic monthly transfer to the so-called family emergency fund. It was six hundred dollars a month for many years, even when we were living across the country, because my father said it was easier to save that way for “important things.”

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