ON MY SON’S GRADUATION DAY, HE TOOK ONE LOOK AT MY NAVY DRESS, MY OLD SILVER BROOCH, AND THE HANDS THAT HAD WORKED DOUBLE SHIFTS TO PAY FOR HIS ENTIRE LIFE, THEN CHOSE HIS RICH MOTHER-IN-LAW TO WALK BESIDE HIM IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE AUDITORIUM WHILE HE WHISPERED, “MOM, YOU EMBARRASS ME” — SO I SAT QUIETLY IN THE BACK, CLUTCHING THE WATCH I’D SAVED MONTHS TO BUY HIM, AND WATCHED ANOTHER WOMAN TAKE CREDIT FOR THE SON I RAISED… UNTIL THE DEAN STOPPED THE CEREMONY, SAID MY FULL NAME INTO THE MICROPHONE, AND TURNED MY SON’S BIGGEST MOMENT INTO THE ONE THING HIS NEW FAMILY NEVER SAW COMING – Part 2

And I I treated that love like it was a burden. I felt something inside me soften, but not completely. The pain was still there. Ryan, I accept your apology, … Continue reading ON MY SON’S GRADUATION DAY, HE TOOK ONE LOOK AT MY NAVY DRESS, MY OLD SILVER BROOCH, AND THE HANDS THAT HAD WORKED DOUBLE SHIFTS TO PAY FOR HIS ENTIRE LIFE, THEN CHOSE HIS RICH MOTHER-IN-LAW TO WALK BESIDE HIM IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE AUDITORIUM WHILE HE WHISPERED, “MOM, YOU EMBARRASS ME” — SO I SAT QUIETLY IN THE BACK, CLUTCHING THE WATCH I’D SAVED MONTHS TO BUY HIM, AND WATCHED ANOTHER WOMAN TAKE CREDIT FOR THE SON I RAISED… UNTIL THE DEAN STOPPED THE CEREMONY, SAID MY FULL NAME INTO THE MICROPHONE, AND TURNED MY SON’S BIGGEST MOMENT INTO THE ONE THING HIS NEW FAMILY NEVER SAW COMING – Part 2